A young woman with her right hand to her head looking down very concerned
June 4th, 2018

Wonderful ways to take on worry

We all have things we worry about.  Often we take our negative feelings and enhance them by making them even worse as we worry about them.  What can we do about this to help our brains, our bodies and our self-image?   This article focuses on this and offers some very constructive ideas.

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May 28th, 2018

What questions should you ask about dispute resolution?

Dispute resolution may begin with a negotiation, move into mediation and could eventually require arbitration or litigation. Generally, most negotiations move smoothly and do not need to escalate to the other levels. In other situations, the parties may move to one of the other levels immediately. The less expensive and the least time-consuming approach is the negotiation without having to escalate to one of the other levels.

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May 21st, 2018

Small talk – Does it always pay big dividends at the IRS?

A great negotiation often has four parts related to building relationships, listening for understanding, educating for enlightening and negotiating winning solutions. However, the question remains how much small talk is necessary to build the relationship and is it really necessary? That is the focus on this article. Small talk

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May 14th, 2018

Awesome Advice for a Wonderful Negotiation with the IRS

Working with clients with issues at the IRS there are five steps to consider along the way. These are preparation, discussion, clarifying interests, negotiation, documentation of the agreement.  These five elements are addressed in terms of an IRS negotiation.  It is not always possible to have a wonderful negotiation, but these five steps can certainly increase the probability of success.

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May 7th, 2018

Dress for Success in a Collaboration

Two very real-world questions for you are: how should you dress for a negotiation, mediation, conflict resolution or a collaboration; and how may your dress influence the process? How you dress may not really matter, but on the other hand dress may be very important. Whether it is or not here are some things to consider.

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April 30th, 2018

This is How Collaboration Can Help Grow Your Business

Over the last four weeks I have focused on why collaboration is important in the workplace, why collaboration is hard, why collaboration doesn’t always work, why collaboration is better than competition, and now I am tying things together with how collaboration can help grow your business.

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April 23rd, 2018

For the first time – why collaboration over competition?

Wait a minute. Isn’t competition good in the work place? Isn’t competition what makes America great? The question really is which is better for your team?

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April 16th, 2018

There is danger in promoting collaboration – this is why it does not work.

It has been demonstrated that collaboration is important in the work place and it works. It has also been shared why collaboration is so hard. Today’s focus is on why collaboration does not work.

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